Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Who are the worst?? Guy cheaters or woman cheaters?
Keep in mind before you post your comment that most women cheat for a reason, its usually that somethings going wrong in the relationship or some type of neglect. There may be a slip up here or there for a woman when shes probably sweet talked into having sex and maybe thats not her fault, on the other hand men most of the time have no reason for there stepping out. What is your opinion?
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that is true that men cheat for no reason!! they think with their "PENIS" (sorry) but it is true!! even if everything is going good in their relationships they still find the time to do some dirt !! afterwards u ask them what was the reason for doing so all they can come up with is : "her booty was big so i couldnt help it" or " i dont really know why" or "she looked at me like she wanted some" just stupid reasons. On the other hand women would probably cheat (and again if) because they had enough of their man's BS and lies or because they are HOES!! simple as that !! it takes a lot for women with good morals to cheat for respect of themselves and their relationships!
i wish men and women were thinking the same as far as sex, relationships etc...
ps: i liked that subject a lot !! i would love to hear how people feel about that
"The eyes of a man are never satisfied". Simply because men are rarely ever satisfied with "1" woman, their lustful desires lead them into a world of greed without limits. While men are more sensitive than women in certain areas, its harder for "some men" to recover from a broken heart than it does a woman and it all had to begin somewhere in his past when he needed to fill that void or patch up a torn heart. So as a result he moves to the next woman as a rebound, etc. While in the process of recovering from heartaches, some men develop a lifestyle as to where their feelings and emotions become surpressed. So in the end they simply cheat without reason because they REALLY do not care! Moreover, women usually do have a reason to cheat whether had it been a situation 5 months ago or either 2 years ago. From experience their is usually reason behind their actions because most women usually are relentless in doing whatever it takes to keep their man if they truly love them. Yet, unfortunately if anything endures enough wear then it's eventually going to give. So to sum it all up, unfortunately guys get the lower end of the stick.
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I think they are equally bad, but women are the best hands down. What was that quote from Two Can Play that Game? "The CIA ain't got shit on a women with a plan." Most of the time when women cheat, their side jawns no the situation. Men try to keep both broads falling in love until he slips up.
My senior year of high school, I dated two guys who were in the same English class. My boyfriend was completely oblivious, but my boo was with the cause. hahaha. It's easy for a woman to be on the phone with "Jessica" for hours on end, but for Rob to be on the phone with Shawn for hours on end is suspect. We have advantage.
Very insightfull..lol. If I may ask -what brought on this blog?
Hmmm...I think there's ALWAYS something goin' on at home when there's a cheat. A lot of the times, it may be that two people commit to each other and they end up with totally different people! Unless they are both on the "I am what I am, take it or leave it." end of things, who someone falls for often times is not who they end up with. One kind of cheat, man or woman, just needs the attention to validate themselves. The Insecure Cheater. They constantly find themselves needing to feel that initial adoration they get with a new romance. It makes them feel better about themselves. Well, we aren't alll perfect, mostly not perfect. That means that until they can be totally honest and open with who they are and share themselves completely, accept themselves completely, the person who chooses to be with them will eventually think they aren't so adorable ALL day, ALL night, EVERY day, EVERY night! Gees, we could go on and on and on about this one! The Need A Challenge Cheater, The Payback Cheater...on and on! I don't think it matters if it is Man or Woman. It's what motivates them to do so!
I disagree somewhat with Jewel's comment.. A woman does not cheat just because she's fed up or she's a hoe..Some women get bored with their situation,their man might be doing a lot. But deep down inside she may feel like somethings missing. So she goes on a prowl to seek the right man that can possibly feel that void inside. At the same time keeping her #1 man on the back burner just in case he is the one. Man I feel cheat more just because women are gullible and like to settle down faster than most man are ready to do. A woman more than likely mentally claims a man after a few dates as being the one without even that man knowing there feelings toward that woman.
Men cheat because they're tired of fucking the same woman day after day. Sad but true.
there is no worse.. its just as bad. The only thing that can be compared is either its cheating physically or emotionally.
I think men and women cheat for the same reasons. Attention! Physical or emotional its just Attention. Women cheat just as bad as men. We just hide our dirt better. And we usually dont have the problem of the man persuing us after the affair. Women become emotionally attached so the cant stop calling a dude after an encounter and wind up blowing up his spot with his woman. We are the same creature we just move about differently.
Not sure who's the worst because it's not right either way it goes, but I will say that women who cheat are more sneaky and smart about the situation and men always get caught and make up lame excuses.
As a guy that just discovered this blog, I say that men cheat more - but it's worse when women do it.
The reason being is that each gender places importance on different aspects. For the man, sex is extremely important and sees this as the expression of love and most valuable part of a woman. For the woman, however the emotional side is extremely important.
Statistics have shown that most men would leave their spouses if it was found out that they were cheating, specifically the sex. Whereas more women are willing to try and work things out as they would place importance on the emotional aspect of the affair and are at least satisfied when finding out that their husband didn't have an emotional attachment.
When women cheat, as so many of you have already said, it's usually because there's something wrong emotionally that they are not getting from their husbands. And because there are so many more factors taken into consideration beforehand before a woman considers sleeping with anyone, they tend to transfer their love from one to the other.
So when a woman cheats not only is it, to man's point of view, that their spouse and partner gave away a part of themselves they consider to be the most precious (which would also explain why men like virgins because they don't like sharing), but they also have given themselves away emotionally.
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