Is He Playing Me?
My observation of the experiences that women have throughout there lives have made me a firm believer of "What you do not know will not hurt you." Woman take many stories to the grave with them. Is he playing me? Would you really like to know or will not knowing really be ok?
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Me personally. I want to know everything. However, I'm not your average woman. I'm a realist and most women are not. Most women are in MAJOR denial about infidelity and relationships. Yet and still women are more likely to cope with "knowing all" than men. A man can dog a woman for years, but when the tables are turned he freaks out. Men just can't handle the thought of another man loving his woman.
Lastly to answer the big question...will it hurt? Not knowing and knowing hurts all the same. What you don't know always comes to light. When light hits...PAIN. If you already know and continue to stay in a relationship...PROLONGED PAIN.
Whoever lil tori is i like you, you must be a real G, cause most women dont wanna know everything, they are just happy to have a man and them are the women i take advantage of!!!
I would never just date a woman like you, you would get on my damn nerves,lol lol i would probably fall in love with your mean ass!!!! Just jokin i know your probably a sweetie, you just dont take no sh$*!!!!
I too would like to know what's going on with my man. I don't like my right to decide taken away from me. Some women will stay with a man even after knowing that he has or is cheating. It is a person's right to be able to stay or walk away. Not knowing is extremely harmful especially from a health stand point.
I agree with "One Two Three Tori" When I was with my ex fiance the fact that I didn't know hurt (he was locking the blackberry) and when I found out (I got in the blackberry Lmaoo) it hurt baddddddddddddddddd! I was freakishly relieved that I finally KNEW how horrible my fiance was and thanked God I got out!
I admit I tried working it out with him at first but the PAIN was prolonged and I really couldn't forget all the nasty things he did and hey WAS still doing!
There should be NO secrets in relationships. Your partner should always know whaats going on or whats not going on and should never be made to feel a way*
Angel*
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