Love or Security?

l love you! Everyone remembers the first time they heard it from that special person, if true, gives you that undescribable great feeling inside that cannot be duplicated in any other way. Love makes you feel that nothing else matters as long as you have that person, they have you and, the love is unconditional. Sounds wonderful but, on the other hand there's security. Security could have two different meanings, security in which without a shadow of a doubt you will be loved unconditionally forever or security in, not necessarily being taken care of financially but having someone thats finacially stable. Is this more important than love these days? Is it about 50/50, or how many of us believe that love is all that we need? Whats the american way???

The count down til valentines day has begun, the perfect day to catch a cheating mate!

Infidelity around valentines can be clearly detected if you pay close attention, most men are extremely sloppy when it comes to covering there trail. Bank statements, forgotten reciepts, discovered gifts that you did'nt recieve on valentines, and the most obvious is the way he splits the time between his loved one and the one he's seeing. Every woman wants to be with that special person on february 14 expecially at night. Men, you cant be in two places at the same time,so ofcourse this creates a stressful problem. Usually the one that doesnt get the time gets the most expensive gift, and sometimes this still does not make up for not spending time.