Is flirting healthy, should it be done, is there a right or wrong way? Is he playing you if he does it??

Is He Playing Me?
"Flirting is a form of human interaction between two people, expressing a romantic and/or sexual interest. It can consist of conversation, body language, or belief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated."

He needs more time, How long does it take to know if you could date someone exclusively?

Is He Playing Me?
What is a reasonable amount of time to determine if someone has longterm potential?
Is there such thing as love at first site, how many cases of this have you seen that lasted? How did you meet your guy, how long did it take?

Texting Instead of calling, What does it mean? Why do some men do it?

Is He Playing Me?
Why is it when you meet some guys they text more then they call? Sometimes you can text and then call and there is no answer. What do you women think of this? Why? Whats going on?

When he needs time is the relationship over? What does this mean?

Is He Playing Me?
Needing time is cool, or is it? Everytime you've thought about taking time off from a relationship what was the case, and please tell the truth!

Does spring and summer bring infidelity?

Is He Playing Me?
Beware women, the season for cheating is here! Summer brings tank tops little shorts, bathing suits, skin and very weak men.

What you don't know will not hurt you?

Is He Playing Me?
My observation of the experiences that women have throughout there lives have made me a firm believer of "What you do not know will not hurt you." Woman take many stories to the grave with them. Is he playing me? Would you really like to know or will not knowing really be ok?

Give a story of infidelity that you've gotten away with, if more than one please do not be shy! You may be anonymous!!!

Is He Playing Me?
We all have skeletons especially WOMEN!!!

Can he be forgiven for cheating? Should a man be forgiven, does it depend on the situation or is there absolutely no excuse

Is He Playing Me?

Late Night Men

Quote from Is He Playing Me
"Its in the late night hours that men do their dirty work. By now, you would think that we would have evolved in our creative thinking by switching it up, incorporating our dirty work into all hours of the day. Hey, who says love and affection can't be just as good at breakfast or lunchtime. Unfortunately, because we men are at sometimes, funnel minded when it comes to our affairs, we have not been able to make progress with our tactics. In fact, most of us get caught in the act during our late night escapades."

Should you have total access to your man's phone?

Is He Playing Me?
Ever since cell phones hit the scene there have been many problems as far as getting caught cheating. Text messaging, stepping out to answer a call, ignored phone calls, hangups, late night calls, all sound suspicious? Some would even go to the extreme of getting a second cell phone. If there is nothing going on should your significant other have full access to your phone, should you be able to swap phones for a day???

Can men really help themselves? Why is it that a man must have more than one?

First of all, men that date more than one woman attract more woman and if single thats not a problem. The problem comes when he commits to one and he still wants more. Dating more than one woman is actually neccessary because, when he comes in contact with that special woman it really makes him appreciate that one woman because of all the experiences he's had throughout his life dating multiple woman. Dating more than one woman also makes men more comfortable around woman and most men that only date one woman are not that comfortable around woman. We could go on all day on the positive aspects of dating more than one woman but all those aspects are really not important there just fun, and we all know men just wanna have fun!!! What makes men want so many woman at a time, how does it make them feel, what do they get out of it, is it a waist of time?

What does sex mean to a relationship? How often does a man need it to keep the mind from wandering?

Is He Playing Me?
I think sex in a relationship is important,but it does depend on what level the relationships at. One of the major problems in long term relationships are that the sex dies out, and sometimes stop all together. Men complain about not enough sex and women most of the time complain about not enough foreplay. Sex for men is not the same as sex for a women and foreplay for a man and foreplay for a woman is not the same. Communication is very important in a relationship, without it there could be a very very big misunderstanding therefore mistakes can happen!

Love or Security?

l love you! Everyone remembers the first time they heard it from that special person, if true, gives you that undescribable great feeling inside that cannot be duplicated in any other way. Love makes you feel that nothing else matters as long as you have that person, they have you and, the love is unconditional. Sounds wonderful but, on the other hand there's security. Security could have two different meanings, security in which without a shadow of a doubt you will be loved unconditionally forever or security in, not necessarily being taken care of financially but having someone thats finacially stable. Is this more important than love these days? Is it about 50/50, or how many of us believe that love is all that we need? Whats the american way???

The count down til valentines day has begun, the perfect day to catch a cheating mate!

Infidelity around valentines can be clearly detected if you pay close attention, most men are extremely sloppy when it comes to covering there trail. Bank statements, forgotten reciepts, discovered gifts that you did'nt recieve on valentines, and the most obvious is the way he splits the time between his loved one and the one he's seeing. Every woman wants to be with that special person on february 14 expecially at night. Men, you cant be in two places at the same time,so ofcourse this creates a stressful problem. Usually the one that doesnt get the time gets the most expensive gift, and sometimes this still does not make up for not spending time.

Can men and women be friends?

Scroll down to youtube link (We cant be friends) right of screen and the question will be answered. (Please mute music at bottom of page before listening to any youtube clip please!)

Make sure your man is provided with the correct armor when he walks out that door. You never know what kind of situation he will face that day!!!

1.Tell your man you love him in a way that he feels it, touch him, grab his hands and tell him you love him.

2.Make sure he knows for a fact that you love him.

3.Never ever let sex be the reason he steps out, men tend to really think its ok to get it elsewhere when he's not getting it at home!!!

4.Always stay in his ear keep his mind on you during the day, text sweet messages, not to many just a couple.

5.Sometimes wake him up with a little suprize, if you know what i mean, men really love that!!

LADIES, MAKE IT TO THE POINT THAT IF YOUR MAN IS PLAYING YOU, ITS NOT ANYTHING ABOUT YOU, IT JUST HE'S NO GOOD!!

Step out for a sec!!! ATL

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Sometimes its great to step out for and hour, hour and a half and have a drink after a hard day at work. Try avoiding that weekend crowd, you never know who you will run into during the week!!

Monday Nights. Tongue and groove, luckie lounge.
Tuesday Nights. The Mbar, Club Onyx, The Via lounge,The Artistry.
Wednesday Nights. Luckie lounge, The Mbar, Sutra lounge.
Thursday Nights. Taboo 2, Pure Atlanta, Ten pin bowling alley,
Friday Nights. Dolce, Club Motion, Da Edge,Verve, Mood Lounge,Velvet room.
Log on to www.atlpics.net and see what and who your missing!

These days, besides Sex, what do women really need men for??? Now ponder!!!

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The Depth of a True Meaning of a "NewYear" by Christian Geis Alexander, Smithsonian Think Laboratories ~There Can Only Be One!~Cga

Hey everyone its a premiere for me to post a few sentences for my close patron Monsignore Montair for the new year. Its tough of whats being said and done and not staying task to its symbolically, metaphorically, and whole heartedly speaking...The meaning in a sense of whats really true and real has been demolished through the evolution of mankind, and that pertains to "just" the last century!!! We have come along way but also strayed away of all morals and attributes to spirit, living and the real meaning of Life and its purpose of so many facettes more than JUST A BLUE HOPE DIAMOND!!! We all have a crystal clear outlook of whats what and which is which...a 'Just'Do... got to be implemented on a daily, hourly basis! We know right from wrong and what is needed to make us better, thus this world a better! Seek and you'll shall find is more than just a bind of some biblical term of a contract! A close friend D.Lang used to always say to me, "Do You",let me add to it, be original, compassionate with gist and true stance...Live everyday to the best, real best, of your true potential and ability...God bless, seriously, even if one day one might discover it aint so...just the positive aspect of thoughts and feeling will attract the same...so Godspeed, live long and stay in tune...~Cga. Christian Geis Alexander (myspace.com/cgalexander)