Wednesday, April 20, 2011

He needs more time, How long does it take to know if you could date someone exclusively?

Is He Playing Me?
What is a reasonable amount of time to determine if someone has longterm potential?
Is there such thing as love at first site, how many cases of this have you seen that lasted? How did you meet your guy, how long did it take?

6 comments:

PublishMyLoveLetter said...

I think that 90 is a sufficient amount of time to know if a person has longterm potential. It's the standard probation period. Yes, there is a such thing as love at first sight. My mother and her husband have been together for 16 years. She chose him and made it happen. It was love at first sight for her.

I met my guy through my business. He was my client for about a year. All along he was checking me out and I had no idea! He finally made his move...Montair, that's a good topic...What do you do when someone is wayyyyyy ahead of you in the beginning? He was in love with me before he ever made a move...Or maybe I should use that one for my blog.

Montair said...

Coming from all the experiences that i have been through and seen i think as long as you let a man string you along without a commitment then we will just stay friends as long as women let us because it gives us the chance to explore our options still!
lol Me personally as long as you give me, thats as long as i will take. You really have to put the pressure on me!! lol lol Trust me ladies if he likes you enough and does not want to lose you he will make that decision quickly! We already know we are really seeing how long we can get away with!! lol lol lol

Just let it happen! said...

Some people just jump into relationship after relationship, i guest its cool cause it gives you experience! But i just can't have my feelings hurt that many times. I do not think that there is a set time limit for love it should just happen. Every relationship that i found myself in little by little all of her cloths were piling up at my house, we got into an argument and she began getting her stuff and did not realize she was already living with me!!! lol lol lol

Tall 'N Pretty said...

I think you set yourself up for emotional merry-go-rounds when you commit to exclusivity too soon. Strong emotions don't always mean, "Let's do this!" If the emotions are strong--and real--they'll persist. So, I say take it slow with exclusivity and sex if you think the person is a keeper. Maybe a little old fashioned for 2009, but hey, it sure spares a lot of hurt feelings and potentially destructive behavior.

Montair said...

Intuition Intuition Ladies a n d you DOGS out there ...muhafugg Ridiculous!Yeah, HowMostMenTakeAdvantage of THAT to such degree that it border-lines abominable! Mr.Montair states "Is there such thing as Love at first site"................................................GET^THE^FUCK^OUTA^HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELL YEEEEEAH there is Love at first site .. .. ..BAR NONE. That's what still makes Love Enticing Embracing Searching and "Looking for it" yaaaaar I mean what I say, with more than just DEEP passion ...It's COMMON SENSE if you stay true and real REAL to yourself ...you will find PURE and simple Happiness!!! STAY REAL and F e e e e e e e e e e el

Anonymous said...

Intuition Intuition Ladies a n d you DOGS out there ...muhafugg Ridiculous!Yeah, HowMostMenTakeAdvantage of THAT to such degree that it border-lines abominable! Mr.Montair states "Is there such thing as Love at first site"................................................GET^THE^FUCK^OUTA^HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELL YEEEEEAH there is Love at first site .. .. ..BAR NONE. That's what still makes Love Enticing Embracing Searching and "Looking for it" yaaaaar I mean what I say, with more than just DEEP passion ...It's COMMON SENSE if you stay true and real REAL to yourself ...you will find PURE and simple Happiness!!! STAY REAL and F e e e e e e e e e e ellll .............