We all know what a physical affair is but just to be clear on what an emotional affairs is in case your confused, most start out as a platonic friendship and forms into a strong bond that in the long run hurts the intimacy of the relationship that your in. Emotional affairs are usually viewed to others as harmless but this is the gateway to full blown sexual infidelity!
Just a couple red flags on emotional affairs.
1. You start spending less and less time together.
2. You find yourself anticipating the time that you will see that person and spend time with them again.
3. You start sharing thoughts and all your feeling and your thoughts with that person instead of your loved one.
4. You think your friend understands you better.
5. You find reasons to give your friend gifts.
These are not only for women, but also men if you feel these coming on then its time to have a talk, and dont beat yourself up about it, just know that if it keeps up there will be more!!!!!!
Emotional leads up to physical, blue pill or green pill choose one, if both combine, TROUBLE!!!
3 comments:
Some things are better left unsaid. Sure you feel that once you've found that significant other. You should be able to talk about anything good or bad.Wrong, when your with some one for so long, your emotions take the best of you. Than you start to think with you heart instead of your brain. So you need that person who has know emotional attachment with you who you can confide with. A person that is looking out for your best benefit not anything extra. So with that being said if I had to choose, physical over emotion!
Physical affairs are the worst, because I don't like to share any part of my spouse with anyone. My brain would(and has) replay the various incidents over and over in my head as torture. Regardless an affair is an affair.
Ask a guy how many girls he's had sex with, but is not exactly sure what their names were? A man can have sex with a random girl and she will never cross his mind again. Emotion does not usually drive a man to want sex. A cutie with a fat ass and sexy lips is all they see. But a the girl that makes him want seconds changes the game. Physical attraction naturally comes first, but the more time you spend together the more likely you are to catch feelings. Sharing an emotional bond can be so much stronger than a casual phyical affair. I think emotional affairs are far more damaging to a relationship!
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