Long distance relationships, can they work, do they work, who beleives in them. In relationships all over the world
careers can yank anyone clear across the world provided if the opportunity is grand enough. Youll need to search
deep inside yourself and make sure your ready for that level of commitment. If you can seriously close your eyes and
imagine yourself with no one else but that person, thats a good sign allthough there are still a couple factors to consider. However, if you've been tempted to stray away at times while living in
town, then chances are your not quite ready! Can guys do it? Do you know any that has,, and how many?
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I think long distance relationships are a bit of a catch 22. I've done it and the way I an my spouse made it was we saw other people but still talked on a regular basis. When we meet up in the same city we didn't talk to those people and only shared time with each other. I didn't have a problem, everyone has needs we're not married. You should always keep your options open boyfriend/girlfriend is not the same as husband/wife
sure they can work if both parties are devoted
Anonymous black:
Long distance relationships needs devotion, an emotion caused by unconditional love, this can be the Achilles heel, I'm about those who really feel this attraction. It's not a reaction but an action which causes satisfaction can lead to ignorance. We grow apart slowly, but surely, we love eachother but absence makes the heart go yonder, sorry for my honesty but honestly we all know the truth. And as we get down to the root, relationships longdistanced a fairytale fable, and if u want fairytale endings, better get cable. This is the earth realm we not in heaven a place the highest saint can be a low life devil. Choose wisely when considering a long distance lover make sure you're on the same page then that will lessen the heartbreak if it doesn't last
MY SISTER DID THE LONG DISTANCE THING SHE LIVED "GA" AT THE TIME AND HE LIVED UP NORTH THEY DID THAT FOR ALL MOST A YEAR SHE WENT UP THERE AND HE CAME HERE SOME TIME BUT IT WORK FOR THEM THEY DID GET MARRIED IN 2006 AND STILL ARE MARRIED I TOLD BOTH OF THEM NEVER LET KNOW ONE COME BETWEEN WHAT YOU HAVE AND IF YOU DO YOUR "NOT READY" AND IF YOU THINK THAT YOU MIGHT STRAP AWAY FROM EACH OTHER YOUR "NOT READY" TO BECOME AS ONE IT'S A BIG DEVOTION
ME IM SELF I HAVE NEVER DID THE LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP THING
Too be honest I dont know. I mean any relationship will work if both parties are fully committed. The problem is that this is rarely the case. One party is always gonna give in to temptation. Especially in America where everyone is looking for the next best thing, whether it be cars, homes, clothes or a mate. I think that so many people suffering from "grass is greener" syndrome that its hard enough to stay committed in the same city or even house, much less the same state or country.
Anything is possible when you are dealing with two strong, devoted, level-headed people. A person that has commitment issues, will have those same issues, no matter where they how far apart or close you live.
I thought i knew of one man who did it for a couple of months, but he was probably cheating back then as well. I think if both parties are truly committed to one another and there is some sort of date of reunion to look forward to, then it can work. But both parties have to want to make it work, just like in any relationship.
I'm currently in a long distance relationship, and I'm loving it. I've never been interested in long distance relationships, because I've always been sooo clingy. HOwever this has been working perfectly. Neither of us are bored with the other. We see each other at least once a month. We have 3 weeks of build up and missing one another. I don't think that distance has anything to do with infidelity. Married men cheat on their wives who they lay next to every night. So that's not my concern. I'm being faithful. I talk on the phone and chat with other men, but no dates and no sex. I trust him right now. He hasn't given me any reason not to.
I hope my comment encourages more women to try the long distance thing. It's really not that bad. Insecurities must be squashed though.
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